Love is not conditional. Having an open pure Heart, caring and loving others without expectation, judgment, control, or blame; that is true Love. And that takes tremendous courage and self-confidence.

Many conditions may have been placed on you and you have placed many conditions on others. These are probably in alignment with agreements you have previously set forth. But Life is Change. As we learn about ourselves we need to continue to evolve any agreements we have with others. This is the only true honest way to keep the fullness of Love alive within ourselves and share it with others.

I find that people who do not like change insist and demand on the maintenance of previous terms, no matter how out-dated they are.

But you agreed

is something you will hear over and over again; yet this should not be a stop to your truth. Life is change, as we flow with it and allow change while caring for ourselves and others we can feel more Love. Insistence on

but you agreed

without allowing evolution of what you had previously created is an excuse to avoid change, creating guilt, blame, judgment, restriction and suppression.

If you find someone or yourself very resistant and refusing to discuss your true feelings, know this is out of fear. Fear will show itself through judgment and control and can have a strong hold, which will suppress and diminish true Love. The more conditions we have on Love, the less it is Love. Love is freedom. Love is unconditional. Love is pure.

Having open communication, without judgment or blame but really getting to know the others in your life and what they really want and allowing them to discover their truth, allows you the freedom to discover your truth.

Open your Heart to your truth; open your Heart to others truths. Revisit old agreements with kindness and Love and acceptance. And be brave enough to open your Heart to Love without feeling the restriction, but feeling true freedom.

Trust that the truth, your truth, their truth, truly will set you free to Love and Live more fully.

Deepening into the Magnificence and Power of Love,

Happy Love Day,

Dale

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